While I was chatting with my mother yesterday evening, suddenly she brought me a rather shocking news. The news somehow makes me more to believe that a person's life is rather unpredictable. She was a good girl in my point of view. Someone who has the same believe like me. But now, she seems to stray far away from God.
My mother told me she's now working as a GRO in a pub. She becomes a heavy smoker and drinker as a result from the place she's working at. I'm so disappointed. She always objected my brother to smoke but now she's smoking. Pretty irony, huh? I guess if she and my brother are still together, she won't be turning to someone else. She's completely different. Turning 180 degree (Thanks to Garry for correcting me.) to another person. Scary isn't it? A person you know becomes a stranger to you.
Oh well. That's life. Perhaps one day I will make a drastic change as well. Changes can be good or bad. For hers, is a bad change. I don't think her parents would approve her working in a pub. Her parents are businessman. I must say she comes from a middle-class family with good family background. I'm just so disappointed on how she turn out to be. I can't judge her. Only God can judge her but I just hope she would come back to the correct path. Hoping she would leave the world she's living now, realize the mistake she has made. Repentance.
I'm still giddy. I vomitted my breakfast less than half an hour I took it and now lunch I think almost want to come out again. Gee....
Life is so unpredictable.
It's true people change from one little cute kid we know to a stranger that does things we despise. It's true we cannot judge a person's changes simply because we could not understand why the person did it. In our eyes, she had changed to a bad person. But little did we know, what makes her becomes that. Is it because of her circumstances, her failures, her disappointments that she took all those bad things to make herself feels better? I've met people who hurt themselves to forget painful memories. Although I don't agree with this way of healing, I understand them as they are. This does not mean I approve this because at the end of the day, it's the choice they made to lead their lives. When I faced with these people, I will be naggy. Ya. I will. We can only be those people who stand at the side when things are grey. I suggest, if things are ok between you and her, that you tried be her friend and understand her. Perhaps your words will sink into her heart one day.
ReplyDeleteYeah....I agree with what you say. We are ok but just lost contact already. Heard she change her number as well. I planned to drop by her house one day and try to look for her yam char. :D
ReplyDeleteBad in the sense that she pick up those unhealthy habits. GRO is still a job to people's eyes to those who believe it is. As long as a person know how to take care and look at it as a job and do not go beyond the boundaries. It is still acceptable.
GRO brings the impression that is a shameful job regardless how nice you want to put it. Probably there are reasons why she did it, or simply devil took over her. :( Anyway, it's her choice to do that instead of a proper job so she cannot avoid being judged by people who look at her in a different light now.
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